Love Stinks(Or is that the Baby?)

One things for sure Love Stinks yea yea. That’s right Love stinks.

Anybody remember that old J Geils tune? It was also used in The Wedding Singer that Adam Sandler movie with Drew Barrymore(He sings an amusing version).

Anyways I have explored(yea right like I am some kind of Lewis and Clarke or Columbus).

Alright wise ass than I previously wrote about the pitfalls of Love(I also happened to write about my wife saying I stink in the bathroom).

Regardless or should I say irregardless(either way) anyone who has been in love or more particularly married has most likely had periods of doubt or periods of disillusionment about being in a monogamous committed relationship with all that entails.

Now I will also point out that there is nothing better in life than to truly be in love, to have someone you can really count on, someone who always has your back (your front too).

To have that companion to share all life has to offer good bad and mundane.

Now add to that equation God’s gift yes that’s right children.

Take a perfectly fine semi-healthy happy relationship add a little one and see what happens.(yea I know sit-com’s love this premise).

In the real world however the introduction of a baby(Hello baby) changes the dynamic of the couple.

More kids more hijinks ensues. So what happens to the couple? Does the relationship take a back seat (permanently) to the spoiled brats(I mean the children)?

If so what can be done to save your relationship. Yes that sexual playful loving laughing relationship that was the relationship pre-children?
Or does it have to die and be reborn as something else, something less?

I am sure that we all(that’s you me and the rest of us) desire want and even need to make adjustments as things can never be the same(Can’t go back remember?).

These adjustments require effort from both members of the couple and perhaps some help from Gina Gray at Our Date Night.

She can give you direction, ideas support and even friendship from like situated couples who have gone through the tough times, the kids, the babies, and the teens, as well as the other issues that make staying together and maximizing your relationship so trying.

Well, maybe it was the baby after all whew that does stink.
You change him Honey, Honey aww come on …

Gotta Go,  Love stinks Yea Yea
Husband of Gina Gray

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