Fetishes

by Michael Messner

Some people are open about their fetishes while others aren’t. I think that some people are afraid of them because they think they are weird. No fetish is weird, unless it is having sex with a dead body. Fetishes are normal and we all have them. They are what make sex interesting and fun. A fetish is when we need something special to turn us on. That special thought we think while we are masturbating. It is what makes us really horny, verses just horny. There are many fetishes out there. Unfortunately, the media only usually covers a few. For example, latex or rubber. It hardly does any justice.

Some fetishes will contain actual items, such as high heels… Some fetishes will be about acts, like acting like an animal while having sex. Some fetishes might contain both actual items and acting, like wearing a diaper and acting like a baby.

Some men have fetishes and don’t even know it. Are you a breast lover? That is a fetish. Do you like a woman in pantyhose? That too is a fetish. Don’t run from them, they are what turn you on.

Here is a list of the top ten fetishes. Check the list if any of these are your fetishes. Hell, you might even find something you didn’t know you liked.

1. Stomachs: Both men and woman like to flaunt their flat stomachs. Nothing is more hot than a woman who is fit. Personally, this drives me wild. I love to see a flat stomach on a woman,

2. Piercings: This is something that is popular with the younger people. They pierce everything than can. They don’t stop at the ears like a normal person does. They may pierce their tongue, their eye brows, their face, or anything they can. I have seen men and women with their nipples pierced! I have heard people of going to the extreme and piercing their genitals. Wow, that must hurt like hell.

3. Latex, leather, rubber: A lot of men love to look at women wearing very tight material. I think this is because it doesn’t make one have to imagine what the person looks like underneath their clothes. Nothing looks better than a nice pair of breasts under a latex shirt.

4. Domination: I have never understood this one. I have tried to get into this, but it isn’t my thing. Some men like to be told what to do. This may also involve whips, hand cuffs, or chains. I don’t know what is a turn on about this, but it seems popular.

5. Feet: This is a popular fetish. I once talked to an escort (classy name for whore) who said that this was very popular with her clients. Some men like to adorn a woman’s feet, while others like to lick them. I have heard of one man who had a fake wedding for their feet and actually threw rice on them and such. To each their own I guess.

6. Lipstick/fingernails: This is a fetish of mine. I love to see a woman wearing thick red lipstick. All I can think about is the ring that it would leave around my penis if she were to give me oral sex. This is one of the things that make a woman look like a woman. This is what from separates men from women. We don’t wear lipstick, well, at least most of us don’t.

7. Hair: This isn’t as weird as it may seem. We all like to see a woman who keeps her hair neat and clean. Some men really get off on this though. Some guys like a woman who has a pony tail or has braids in her hair.

8. Water: Every man dreams of that woman who sticks her head up from the pool and is very good looking. I think we like water because people tend to wear little or nothing in water. Nothing looks better on a woman than a wet t-shirt or a wet bathing suit fit snuggly on her breasts.

9. Golden showers: This is a strange one. This is one of my all time favorites. This is where you urinate on your partner, or they urinate on you. I think this is a great turn on. Sometimes it has to do with domination. There is no signal stronger than pissing on someone. This is the most fun out of all the fetishes. Make sure you try this one out!

10. Voyeurism: This is the most popular fetish. People love to watch and be watched having sex. This is one of the reasons why porn is so popular. We love to watch someone have sex. I have seen a lot of people who have sex and put movies and pictures of it on the net.

That is a short list of fetishes. Some are innocent and some are on the wild side. We all have things that turn us on. Don’t be afraid of them, enjoy them. They will help make your sex life better.

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Gina Gray

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Female Orgasm Again

by Sarah Briggs

Let’s face it - most guys have experienced orgasm. In fact, most experience it without a partner by their mid-teens. Something you might not know is that not all women experience orgasm at all, and even less during intercourse. For a variety of reasons, many women do not masturbate. The clitoris does not make its presence felt as does the penis, and upon reaching sexual maturity, the female body does not experience erections or wet dreams. A lot has been said about the female orgasm. One thing of which you can be certain is that a guy who knows a lot about getting his parters off is a guy who will have his sexual partners eagerly coming back for more.

Women need more

Unlike most men, who find themselves excited when seeing an attractive nude female body, very few women are not triggered by seeing a nude male. And seeing a close-up of genitals is very unlikely to excite any woman. They’re just different that way, both genetically and culturally. No doubt that is why men spend so much time at strip clubs, where strip shows for women are more of a novelty. This is also why there are not more nude male magazines for women. Women need mental stimulation to achieve orgasm - especially their first time. Every woman is different in what exactly turns them on, but a lot of women also require a feeling of connection with their partner.

Whether or not your partner has come before or not, it is usually not as easy for women to experience an orgasm. It takes an average of twenty minutes for a woman to reach orgasm, and interruption in her mood can completely derail this process. Sure, some girls can come in a few minutes, but they are not the norm.

A lot of people ask the question “who is responsible for the woman’s orgasm?” Ultimately both partners are probably responsible. Let’s face it - guys aren’t built the same, and if women keep them guessing about what to do, it may not get done right. On the other hand, a lot of men seem to feel that sticking their penis in their partner should be enough. The truth is that it very rarely is enough, and the men that believe this are usually guilty of wilful ignorance.

Meet the clitoris

The primary trigger for most female orgasms is the clitoris, a small nub of flesh outside and just to the front of the vagina. In many intercourse positions, the clitoris is not touched in any way, making orgasm literally impossible for most women. For most women to come during intercourse, there must be some contact with the clitoris. In most cases, this can easily be achieved by the man’s pubic bone. Even easier, either the man or the woman can gently masturbate the woman by lightly rapidly rubbing her clitoris only after she is already excited. The main function of foreplay is to get the partners excited and to allow the female to lubricate. Many men who rush through foreplay because they are anxious to fuck miss part of the point - it takes a woman longer to become excited. If you routinely rush your partners through foreplay, they will not be excited, will very rarely if ever have orgasms with you, and will not look forward to more sex with you with a sense of anticipation.

For women who are uncomfortable with masturbation, a vibrator can be held on the clitoris. Also a stream of water from a bathtub or hot tub can be a great way for a woman to come.

The tongues have it

Most women’s favourite sexual activity is not intercourse, it is cunnilingus. The softer, smooth surface of the tongue is very well suited to the very sensitive clitoris. Where fingers can irritate, your tongue is a perfect tool to bring your partner to bliss and keep her there. If you want your partners to come back for more, remember to slow down the foreplay so they’re ready when you are, and make sure that they are satisfied as well as you are… And your partners will come back for more!

Have fun and stay safe.

Gina Gray

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Female Oral Sex

Being licked feels wonderful to women. There are a few women who don’t find it pleasant, but most women just love it - if you do it right! The problem here is that according to women, a lot of men don’t know how to give a woman pleasure through oral - so strap on your safety belts - as we tell you what women really like. An important thing to understand about women is that a lot of women are shy and kind of embarrassed about how their body looks. If the woman you’re with isn’t comfortable with her body, be reassuring but also dim or turn off the lights. This will help your partner to concentrate on what you’re doing to her instead of worrying about how she looks to you.

After a nice long foreplay session, try moving down to your lover’s inner thighs. This is one of a woman’s most sensitive and erotic spots, although it is also one of the ones she worries the most about, appearance wise.  Try gently kissing her inner thighs, and licking them with a dry, pointed tongue. Light nibbles are good, too.  A few women are too ticklish to enjoy this. Don’t force the issue or she’ll be a nervous wreck instead of passionate. When you first move to your partner’s vagina, do not do anything sudden. Try licking gently up and down her lips, not opening them, just licking them and maybe a very gentle nibble.  After a couple minutes, you can suck on them but never be rough or suck too hard.  Don’t go further yet unless she urges you to or until you start hearing her breathing change or little moaning sounds.

Now you move on to the hood of skin covering her clitoris.  That is the little nub of flesh to the front her her vagina.  If a woman is excited, her clitoris will be

hard.  If she is not totally excited, it will be soft and very small.  If it is not totally hard, or you are not sure, suck gently on the hood over her clit, not yet touching the clit itself.  You can use a finger from one hand to stroke her vaginal lips.  If you feel moisture on them, you can very gently insert just the very tip of your finger between her lips as you suck over her clit. After a little while - and don’t rush - gently push back the skin so that the clitoris is exposed.  Be very gentle with it - there are a lot of nerve endings in this piece of flesh.  Gently suck it - VERY gently.  Alternate sucking with soft licking with the tip of your tongue.

Now here are a few things you can try in any random order you like and as she likes:

• Try licking her clit in fast little circles
• Insert your finger into her canal
• Try licking in figure eight motions
• Use both hands to hold her legs apart
• Move the finger inside her like you were stirring a very small cup of coffee
• Put a second finger inside of her and spread the two fingers gently apart, then together over and over
• Lick her clit in a short, fast up and down motion
• Push her legs into the air and hold them there

You can try other things, too.  Make sure to pay attention, because at some point, your partner will become more excited.  She may grab your head or start pulling your hair.  If she pulls your head toward her, try not to change what you are doing with your tongue any more.  A lot of men think that when a woman reaches her peak of excitement just before she climaxes that this would be a great time to add variety.  Don’t.  This is a great time to keep doing exactly what turned her on the most. Something to note here is that if a man starts to orgasm and the physical stimulation that got him there is removed, he will probably continue his orgasm. This is not the case for women. If you stop licking her before she is done, her orgasm will stop in the middle, and she will be very, very frustrated.

Never use teeth on a woman unless it is gentle enough not to hurt. Use a gentle touch always, unless requested otherwise.  Be sure to pay attention so you’ll know which things you did that she liked the best.  A man that gives great oral sex to a woman can bring her her greatest sexual pleasure.

A bigger penis can help you to reach the “g-spot” which can give women bigger and better orgasms. She may also experience multiple orgasms as well. You can read up on how I enlarged my penis by reading, my penis enlargement story. If you are interested  in more sex positions and how to become the best lover your partner(s) have ever had then visit my recommended site Here is the direct link.

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Doing Oral Sex

Title: Doing Oral Sex

by Peter James

I know, you already know how to lick it down there. Trust me, after reading this, you will have learned a few new things to do down there. Oral sex is important. I don’t know if women prefer oral sex verses penetration. I would think that some, if not more than half do. Many women can’t achieve an orgasm with normal sex. That is a sad but true fact of life. Some women don’t like to give or receive oral sex. Most healthy people enjoy it a lot. Chances are if a woman doesn’t enjoy oral sex, she either had some bad experiences or she feels uncomfortable with her body. Read more

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Blow Jobs

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