Romance or Sex?
Ladies, Are you looking for romance or sex?
Which is more important? Which do you desire more?
Or is it both?
What’s holding you back from getting what you want? Are you claiming your too tired to put any effort into getting what you want?
Are you having trouble communicating what you want? Is your partner just plan hopeless? Does he know how to give you what you want?
Do you desire to have him romance you regulary? When is the last time you felt special, needed, wanted and desired by your partner?
It’s time to get what you want and how you want it? The best part is you don’t even have to ask for it. He will just do it!
Do you remember when he would take you out, bring you flowers, cards, gifts etc! He would open the door, help you with your coat, not burp or fart in front of you! Oh the good ole days! Ladies, I can bring those days back. I can get him to do all those things and more and he will love it too. He will be Mr. Romantic.
I can get him to give you the foreplay that you need want and desire. I can get him to surprise, shock and treat you like the goddess that you are!
Out goes your worn out tired old husband/partner, in comes the new and improved most romantic man on the planet! Ha you laugh! No I have proof! It can and will happen, “I’ve done it to the most unresponsive, laziest couch potato men in the world.”
Of course ladies he will need some attention to it’s only fair. I believe if the men get what they want and you get what you want it’s a WIN-WIN.
Men Want Sex Woman Need Romance.
Let Me Give You The Secret. So You Both Get What You Want!
You need to nurture your relationship on a regular basis. It’s essential for the relationship to not only survive but thrive. If you care about your partner and your relationship you must take the necessary actions to make that happen.
Have you ever considered your partner looking elsewhere to get their intimate desires met?
Unfortunetly, many many people do just that. They can’t communicate what the NEED and DESIRE from their partner. Do you want to take that chance?
How did that feel when you thought of that?
Could you imagine it?
What would be an easier experience, going through the heartache of that or giving an hour or so per week to fulfilling each others needs? Keep the one you have. It’s easier than you think. Also way more fun than you can imagine. Think for a moment can you say your partner is 100% satisfied with the love, sex and romance you provide?
Are you?
Please if you know of others that feel like this pass it along. Go to my comment area or blog and rave about it.
Thank you
Gina Grey-Romance Director
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10 Ways to Make Your Relationship More Thrilling
The start of a relationship is exciting, risky, even a bit scary, and we savor every slightly out-of-control minute of it. “I’m crazy for him,” we say. “He makes my heart pound.” That early relationship thrill comes from the high of discovery, from learning your partner’s passions and fears. It’s the mystery of the unknown and the anticipation of the unexpected: What’s he thinking? Will he call?
As a relationship matures, though, we tend to trade that intense feeling of free-falling for contentment and security. But why can’t we have the best of both worlds: a rock-solid, comfortable, deeply fulfilling partnership and a regular injection of “but I barely know you” mystery? According to relationship experts and some thrill-seeking couples, we can. Here are 10 ways to stay in love and never stop falling.
1. Scare yourselves silly
Medical experts liken the body’s fear response to sexual arousal — our pulse quickens and we break out in a sweat, which may explain why people voluntarily bungee-jump or descend full speed down glaciers on skis. We get a rush from being scared in a somewhat controlled environment, and when we do it with a partner, we’re brought together by the feeling of having conquered our fears hand in hand. Carol Worthington, 39, of Baltimore, can attest to this: “My husband, Brian, wanted to go skydiving, and even though it wasn’t my idea of fun, I decided to go with him so we could share the thrill. It was the scariest thing I’ve ever done, but also one of the most exciting moments of our married life together.”
Granted, jumping out of a plane may be more stimulation than many of us ever care to experience, but there’s always the rock-climbing wall at your gym, the scream machine of your choice at the local amusement park, or just watching a scary movie together in the dark.
2. Spill a secret
Intimacy and thrills go hand in hand, which is probably why the initial getting-to-know-you period at the beginning of a relationship is so exciting. Walking along the beach on vacation, after we’d been married for five years, my husband and I dared each other to reveal one secret about ourselves. After first insisting, “But I keep nothing from you!” I got up the guts to tell him about the M&Ms I keep hidden in the drawer with my gym clothes, and he told me he’d lost the stuffed dolphin I’d given him on our first Christmas together.
3. Place a bet
You and your husband have $20 on Hootenanny to win in the sixth race. He rounds the far turn three back from the lead, but he’s closing in fast. The horses thunder past you down the stretch, and Hootenanny wins by a nose! You jump into your husband’s arms and suddenly realize you’re having a blast. The adrenaline rush, the decadence of throwing caution (and a few bucks) to the wind, and the slightly sleazy atmosphere of the track or your average casino all make gambling a great way to inject a little pizzazz into your relationship. Of course, you don’t have to wager your hard-earned cash to get the same effect: Try playing strip poker in your living room after the kids go to bed or going to a pool hall and betting on who has to make dinner for the next week.
4. Be a little daring
When I was in high school the “in” thing to do during the wee hours of a warm summer night was to sneak into the local pool and go skinny-dipping. Fear of getting caught in a compromising position is guaranteed to evoke some thrills and chills, and you can bring back that feeling as adults in small ways that won’t get you thrown in the slammer. How, you ask? The next time the two of you go to a movie, hide in the last row of the theater and fool around. Valerie Gordon, 35, of Santa Clara, CA, ups the excitement factor by showing (more than) a little skin: “When the mood hits and the weather permits, my husband and I take naughty photos of each other in public places like parking garages.”
5. Relive your first date
Your first date was a mystery that had yet to be solved. There were several juicy clues — the look in your date’s eyes, the way he kissed you — and plenty of nervous tension. But even though you know how that mystery turned out, returning to the scene of that first crime can bring back some of those old goosebumps. Sharon Alex, 38, of Lake Mary, FL, suggests you plan the evening exactly as you did the first time — same perfume, same innocent looks, everything. You can even dress separately and meet each other there, as Alex did: “I met my husband at a nightclub, and we danced and flirted. His arm around my waist made everything seem just right.”
6. Cyber-romance each other
These days it’s far too easy for a chasm of cyberspace to grow between a husband and wife. He can spend hour after hour playing a computer game, and she can’t seem to get enough of the Women.com chat rooms. But with a few quick clicks, you can use this very same technology to hot-wire your marriage. “With the accessibility of e-mail,” says Michele Weiner-Davis, a marriage and family therapist in Woodstock, IL, and author of Divorce Busting, “we can take the time to do things we wouldn’t ordinarily do, like sending love letters.” One woman she knows decided that if her husband was going to spend all of his time surfing the Internet, she would express her feelings online. She e-mailed him a very personal romantic poem and got an amazingly romantic response.
7. See each other in a different light
Kristen Kiser, 30, of Astoria, NY, and her husband add a spark to their marriage by hosting Thanksgiving dinner for friends who can’t make it home for the holiday. “I get to see what Marc’s like in action, when he’s taking charge and acting the host,” she says. “It makes me fall in love with him all over again.” Says Los Angeles psychotherapist Suzanne Lopez, author of Get Smart with Your Heart, “Seeing your partner with different eyes has to do with letting go of preconceived ideas. It can really change the energy in a relationship for the better.” Other eye-opening ideas: Consider taking a boxing class together at the gym, where you both might be a bit more wild and aggressive than usual, or dance lessons, where you might surprise each other with your grace.
8. Become a master of seduction
A little bit of forethought can awaken some of the passion in your marriage, even on an ordinary Tuesday night. Rob Czaplewski, 29, of Grand Island, NB, likes to get home from work before his wife and put a love note on the back door. “Then I have her favorite music playing with all the candles lit in the living room and a bed of pillows on the floor,” he says, “and finally, the promise of a backrub to help her relax.”
Jenna Schlehuber, 42, of Moran, MI, used a bottle of cologne to build temptation. She bought her husband a scent she really liked and had it wrapped. When he went upstairs that evening to take his shower, she left it on his pillow with a card that said, “Would you wear this tonight for me, and only this?” Says Schlehuber, “After a few minutes, I went upstairs to find him just the way I asked, waiting patiently for me to come to bed. What a romantic evening we had — better than ever. And he loved the cologne, too.”
9. Profit from the passion
Sex is something relationship experts universally agree will bolster just about every area of a marriage — including its thrill quotient. “Increased sexual contact,” says Lopez, “is a way to recapture the erotic force that brought you together in the first place.” Weiner-Davis tells of one woman who, soon after resolving to have more sex with her husband, not only characterized her marriage as more thrilling but said that he suddenly began mowing the lawn regularly and making her coffee in the morning — unasked.
10. Take a trip to nowhere
At the beginning of your relationship, every date was an adventure; you never knew quite what was going to happen or how it was going to end up. So one weekend, take a trip — overnight or just for the day — without knowing where you’re going. No packing, no planning. Says Patty Moosbrugger, 35, of New York City, who’s been married for six years, “Every now and then we just grab sweaters and sandwiches and get on a train. We get out when we feel like it and spend the day exploring wherever we land.” By letting go of some of the control you have over your lives, you’ll recapture that exciting sense of the unknown you felt when you first met.
Article from Redbook.com
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13 Magical Things to do on a date!
When you know that you have found the perfect woman for you, make sure that she feels the same about you. You are crazy about her and want to make her feel happy with you, that’s why you are ready to make all the sacrifices to impress her, to show her how much you care about her, or to not permit that routine to come into your relationship.
With all this sacrifices to show her your feelings, to keep your relationship as cool as it
was at the beginning, you feel that you have to make something more interesting. That’s why you should induce “magic “into your relationship even if you are hopeless romantic or not. To add more intimacy, love, understanding and compassion in any relationship is always welcome.
So, here are some magical things to do in order to impress your partner in a good way and increase your relationship:
1. Surprise her by taking her lunch and coffee at bed right after she woke up; if you didn’t do this before she will definitely be impressed; also cooking a pizza for her and cut it in a
heart shape it is very romantic; a woman will always find interesting a man who is able to cook for her, no matter what kind of food it is; even if it wouldn’t be too tasty, she will appreciate that you have tried
2. Set up a picnic in the park; even it is an usually day, prepare all you need for a picnic,
go get your girlfriend and go for a walk; don’t tell her from the beginning what you plan to, let it be a surprise; a ‘ going out’ at a picnic in the fresh air is always welcome and relaxing
3. Send her flowers anytime and anywhere, that is unexpected; women love flowers, so sending her flowers without any reason will demonstrate her that you really care about and make her feel loved and special; the most probably that she will answer you with the same love you show her
4. Fill her apartment with balloons or something she likes, maybe it’s a crazy idea, but it
usually works to impress girls; it will be seen as a funny thing by your partner and remember that some fun is necessary in any relationship
5. If you are good at writing, write her a poem, or create a book for her with a special
dedication; this will definitely work if she love poems; don’t begin to write a poem only if
you know that you are good at it, other way you will screw up
6. Reading romantic poetry in the middle of the living room on a blanket in soft candlelight, it is a very good way to offer your partner a wonderful evening; women are often more romantic than men, that’s why they like to be surprised by men with romantic ideas
7. Massages are always magic when done right; buying different flavored edible bars to
experiment with each other can be more surprising; but if you are not good at making massage, go to a spa together and get a couples massage together
8. Go for a romantic meal; make reservations at a beautiful restaurant and create a romantic atmosphere with candles, roses and slow music; offer her a night to never forget
9. Going for a walk at night and looking at the stars and moon is almost such romantic as the restaurant, and is cheapest; so it is not necessary to have a lot of money to offer your
partner a lovely evening; it can be very interesting
10. If you can afford it, take her in holiday in an exotic place, like a beautiful island, only
you two alone, with sunshine and plenty of water, where you will spend a wonderful time together, and will not be disturb by friends, family, relatives
11. But, if you can’t afford to go in a exotic place, to the sea, there’s no problem; bubble
baths together are always magic times;
12. Surprise visits; surprise her with your visits when she is not expecting at all; while you are able to surprise her in a good way, she will not lose interest in you
13. Don’t be afraid to talk sweet nothings into her ear; make the woman feel good by saying sweet and romantic things to her at any given time; as I said, women love romance.
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Mans View
The Mans perspective (My wife made me do it)
I was asked to throw something together from the mans perspective regarding relationships and such, did I say asked? Yea right asked.
I mean my loving wife shamed cajoled told requested and alright flat out ordered me to help her out and submit a writing (maybe there were threats and or promises of sex mentioned as well).
So here it goes; Do women like to control tame leash and train their men to make them more palatable?
Do they laugh brag and talk to their girlfriends about their success at getting their men to do things that they think should be done, when and how they think they should be done. Were the men they fell in love with really just works in progress that required their training to make them into more perfect mates?
Now I know we have all heard felt and or lived through this phenomenon but what I really would like to figure out is at what price this happens. That is suppose the well meaning smarter more cultured and refined woman tames the poor slovenly oaf.
She separates him from his disgusting worthless no good friends and or family members. She breaks him of his bad habits such as drinking partying going to sporting events strip clubs bars and such with his friends and ultimately breeds with the now worthy fellow.
Where does this leave the relationship? Is the poor retrained male lobotomized into thinking/believing that it was all for the better and that he should be eternally grateful for his spouses help in becoming the man that she always knew that he could be?
Or maybe he is resentful bitter and sad for the person who he used to be? Maybe he misses his old pals even if they really were drunkin pigs.
Does he feel that he has been consumed and evaporated into this new better man? Again I have to ask (because my wife is the sex lady and relationship guru) what long range effect does this scenario have on a marriage or a committed relationship?
If it creates ill will or resentment does that ultimately kill the relationship? Does it lead to infidelity? Does it wear on the now tamed man and bring on the worst aspects of the dreaded mid-life crisis?
Does it lead to the 2 of you ultimately leading separate but together lives in the same household with an ever decreasing sex life? Did it used to lead to that guy who was going to the store to get milk and never comes back? Hey does that still happen?
Anyways it certainly leaks into any fights and certainly effects the relationship assuming that the poor stupid man realizes and resents his retraining. Now don’t get me wrong men knowingly voluntarilly and willingly seek out women (mostly for sex) because they are pretty, look good smell good , cook good, clean up our living area and were fun to talk to (if they thought we were funny smart tough good looking and or we thought we could have some sex).
Regardless men will continue to put up with some of this retraining even happilly if they are getting in the present the things which make their relationship worthwhile to them. If they are getting their loving, the sex, the occasional night out with the friends and relatives along with the comforts of home and family life and a spouse who respects loves and treats them well.
If you are not making it worth your mans while to be truly involved in your relationship you probably are alot closer than you think to losing that relationship through infidelity or just the inevitable expiration of that kind of union. Here it comes yes thats right I know because this plan, this program www.ourdatenight.com saved our marriage and it too can resuscitate yours too.
I gotta go I was promised orally a favor for writing this article It was hard to refuse.
Husband to Gina Grey out
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What is Romance?
To romance a woman is not as difficult as one might think. To fulfill a woman romantically can come very easily for a man.
No, it does not have to effect the wallet at all.
Woman love the small gestures from her partner most of all. It can be as simple as asking her if she needs help with a chore she is doing, dishes, bringing laundry to her, or helping her bring in groceries.
It may not seem romantic to a man, but these gestures show you care and love her. You may do something as simple as getting her car washed for her, or getting her oil changed.
Leaving her little notes around the house or in the car are a sure fire way to give her a smile. Make “her” special meal once in a while. You may even stop at one of her favorite restaurants on the way home from work and pick up her favorite dessert. You can draw her a nice bath with candles and music.
There are many small gestures you can do for your lady they do not require a lot of time, money or effort.
These small gestures go a long long way in showing how much you care for her. Your partner needs these romantic gestures to feel needed loved and desired by you. You need to continually show your apprecitation for her to feel your love.
It is important to realize that women do not want you to perform such acts of romance solely with the hopes of obtaining sex from her. You should perform these acts of romance to secure your love for her.
Romancing the man
Yes, ladies you can romance the man as well. Men love to feel appreciated as well. They also want to know you care and love them.
You need to reciprocate the romance. They love to hear that you are thankfull on how hard they work to help provide for the family.
They want to hear thank you for gestures they do around the house.
Unfortunelty, many woman may take their man for granted and not compliment them as much as they would like.
If your man is usually home on the weekends and you have children, offer to watch the kids solely by yourself for an hour or so.
Let him catch a quick nap, watch a show, or read a book. He will love you for it. Take turns he may do the same for you.
Think back to an activity you both used to enjoy together, but have not done in a long time. Make arrangements to do that activity. When you arrive back home thank him not only verbally but with some oral sex. He will be happy to enjoy another outing with you in the future.
Do a chore for him around the house once in a while that he normally does.
Men and woman both need romance. A happy healthy balance of romance within your relationship will insure a great relationship.
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