Just ran out to Best Buy be back in a couple.
Just ran out to Best Buy be back in a couple of minutes… (Part 1)
Thats right on the heels of my non sequitur throw away question: Does anyone still pull the old, I am going to the store for some milk and disappear? I read a new modern day version. Read more
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They are all crazy, what should I do?
One of the most common complaints men have about their women is that they are “crazy”.
Now this characterization while not clinical by any means certainly is almost always supported by ample anecdotal evidence.
(Meaning the men always tell you a story usually evidencing some kind of vastly out of proportion reaction nay overreaction to what sounds like a not too significant incident comment or action.) The men routinely recount some normal situation from their perspective that suddenly and without any forewarning quickly spins out of control.
The resultant verbal assault or worse leads to the man becoming angry and belatedly trying to catch up to the situation and escalating the argument. I have heard many different versions and varieties of this phenomenon ranging from a seemingly innocent comment about work or dinner or somebody they spoke with or about earlier to a mention of potential plans to do something with friends or relatives at a later time.
I have heard many other similar seemingly normal (from the male perspective) situations that sound innocent enough that somehow led to one of these escalations and the subsequent story of “she’s crazy.”
Of course in these situations the woman often times bring up anything and everything they can think of to show you that whatever they believe you have done in the past which certainly was terrible from their perspective must again be discussed even though it usually has no connection or relevance to the issue at hand. (whatever that may be)
Sometimes these fights end with threats of divorce somebody leaving the house horrible name calling tears or worse.
I had read that Jason Kidds wife use to try to stand in front of his car so he couldn’t leave to show up for his Nets games prior to their filing for divorce. Imagine that the guys wife was trying to get him to miss his teams game bringing with it the prospect of news reports suspensions and or fines permanently effecting his future ability to earn money during the limited lifespan of an NBA player.
Now that brings up the inevitable question to what effect? Now as mentioned in the Jason Kidd example it led to an ugly divorce. But what about those of us men who are looking to avoid a divorce but also find themselves thinking do I really deserve to have to put up with this? And Why should I have to put up with this?
They find themselves thinking wouldn’t I be better off, happier less stressed out if I didn’t have to go through these incidents or just got away from this “crazy woman“?
The, Is it worth it for the kids and the mostly stable environment? The fear of upheaval a seperation or divorce would bring?
The financial impact? the seeing your kids everyday? and Finally the specter of giving up on the woman that you fell in love with, who gave birth and helped raise your children to that point?
What do the men do? Well some seemingly figure they will go outside the marriage to get what they aren’t receiving in the marriage be it sex or ottherwise, maybe subconsciously figuring if they get caught that will force the inevitable decision.
Others I suppose start living that seperate but together life for the kids others still try the counseling thing and some bail and file for divorce facing that unpleasant process.
Ourdatenight.com offers you a far more palatable option that of bringing you and your loved one the marriage you always wanted by transforming you and that women you fell in love with back to the loving couple ou always wanted to be satisfying both physically(thats sex) and emotionally (thats mostly what shes apparently missing) and most importantly will help to (not entirely) reign in the “crazy” and expand the loving sexual creature you desire.
Give you and your wife that chance that your relationship deserves enroll today at Ourdatenight.com you won’t regret it.
Besides I hear they are all “crazy” so if you leave this one the next one may be even “crazier” You saw Fatal Attraction right?
Husband to Gina Gray
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Does my ass look fat in these jeans? And other impossible to answer questions….
I enjoyed my payment for yesterdays article so much that here I am again pecking away at my keyboard trying to give my version of the male perspective. I’m sure by reading the title you have a guess at where I am going. Read more
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Foreplay advice for men and women. Foreplay is a critical and crucial part of the whole lovemaking experience. It is simply define as everything that comes before actual intercourse…..
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Steady as she goes….
My husband who for the most part is very level headed, extremely even keeled and pretty consistent, often jokes, yes at my expense, that I am not! Read more
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Dumb Blonde Myth
The ‘Dumb Blonde’ Is A Myth
A lawyer and a blonde woman are sitting next to each other on a long
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Mans View
The Mans perspective (My wife made me do it)
I was asked to throw something together from the mans perspective regarding relationships and such, did I say asked? Yea right asked.
I mean my loving wife shamed cajoled told requested and alright flat out ordered me to help her out and submit a writing (maybe there were threats and or promises of sex mentioned as well).
So here it goes; Do women like to control tame leash and train their men to make them more palatable?
Do they laugh brag and talk to their girlfriends about their success at getting their men to do things that they think should be done, when and how they think they should be done. Were the men they fell in love with really just works in progress that required their training to make them into more perfect mates?
Now I know we have all heard felt and or lived through this phenomenon but what I really would like to figure out is at what price this happens. That is suppose the well meaning smarter more cultured and refined woman tames the poor slovenly oaf.
She separates him from his disgusting worthless no good friends and or family members. She breaks him of his bad habits such as drinking partying going to sporting events strip clubs bars and such with his friends and ultimately breeds with the now worthy fellow.
Where does this leave the relationship? Is the poor retrained male lobotomized into thinking/believing that it was all for the better and that he should be eternally grateful for his spouses help in becoming the man that she always knew that he could be?
Or maybe he is resentful bitter and sad for the person who he used to be? Maybe he misses his old pals even if they really were drunkin pigs.
Does he feel that he has been consumed and evaporated into this new better man? Again I have to ask (because my wife is the sex lady and relationship guru) what long range effect does this scenario have on a marriage or a committed relationship?
If it creates ill will or resentment does that ultimately kill the relationship? Does it lead to infidelity? Does it wear on the now tamed man and bring on the worst aspects of the dreaded mid-life crisis?
Does it lead to the 2 of you ultimately leading separate but together lives in the same household with an ever decreasing sex life? Did it used to lead to that guy who was going to the store to get milk and never comes back? Hey does that still happen?
Anyways it certainly leaks into any fights and certainly effects the relationship assuming that the poor stupid man realizes and resents his retraining. Now don’t get me wrong men knowingly voluntarilly and willingly seek out women (mostly for sex) because they are pretty, look good smell good , cook good, clean up our living area and were fun to talk to (if they thought we were funny smart tough good looking and or we thought we could have some sex).
Regardless men will continue to put up with some of this retraining even happilly if they are getting in the present the things which make their relationship worthwhile to them. If they are getting their loving, the sex, the occasional night out with the friends and relatives along with the comforts of home and family life and a spouse who respects loves and treats them well.
If you are not making it worth your mans while to be truly involved in your relationship you probably are alot closer than you think to losing that relationship through infidelity or just the inevitable expiration of that kind of union. Here it comes yes thats right I know because this plan, this program www.ourdatenight.com saved our marriage and it too can resuscitate yours too.
I gotta go I was promised orally a favor for writing this article It was hard to refuse.
Husband to Gina Grey out
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Should you manhandle him?
Are you using your hands EVERYWHERE?
When you are caressing yourself or groping or manhandling him use the hands everwhere don’t miss a spot. This can add major excitement to you love session. Gently run your fingers through his pubic hair, lightly pinch his nipples. Let your fingers do the walking all over his manly area, touch caress, grab but softly, it helps intensify his pleasure zones.
When your sitting on top reach back and grab his balls hold them squeezing lightly. When he’s in missionary position grab his butt push it together or pull apart, lightly give him a slap. Most men love any touch on their buttocks it intensifies the feeling of pleasure.
Woman, another fast and furious way to skyrocket his intensity is to grab his hand and show him where and how you want to be touched and felt. Show him the techniques that send shivers through you.
Gina Gray
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What is Romance?
To romance a woman is not as difficult as one might think. To fulfill a woman romantically can come very easily for a man.
No, it does not have to effect the wallet at all.
Woman love the small gestures from her partner most of all. It can be as simple as asking her if she needs help with a chore she is doing, dishes, bringing laundry to her, or helping her bring in groceries.
It may not seem romantic to a man, but these gestures show you care and love her. You may do something as simple as getting her car washed for her, or getting her oil changed.
Leaving her little notes around the house or in the car are a sure fire way to give her a smile. Make “her” special meal once in a while. You may even stop at one of her favorite restaurants on the way home from work and pick up her favorite dessert. You can draw her a nice bath with candles and music.
There are many small gestures you can do for your lady they do not require a lot of time, money or effort.
These small gestures go a long long way in showing how much you care for her. Your partner needs these romantic gestures to feel needed loved and desired by you. You need to continually show your apprecitation for her to feel your love.
It is important to realize that women do not want you to perform such acts of romance solely with the hopes of obtaining sex from her. You should perform these acts of romance to secure your love for her.
Romancing the man
Yes, ladies you can romance the man as well. Men love to feel appreciated as well. They also want to know you care and love them.
You need to reciprocate the romance. They love to hear that you are thankfull on how hard they work to help provide for the family.
They want to hear thank you for gestures they do around the house.
Unfortunelty, many woman may take their man for granted and not compliment them as much as they would like.
If your man is usually home on the weekends and you have children, offer to watch the kids solely by yourself for an hour or so.
Let him catch a quick nap, watch a show, or read a book. He will love you for it. Take turns he may do the same for you.
Think back to an activity you both used to enjoy together, but have not done in a long time. Make arrangements to do that activity. When you arrive back home thank him not only verbally but with some oral sex. He will be happy to enjoy another outing with you in the future.
Do a chore for him around the house once in a while that he normally does.
Men and woman both need romance. A happy healthy balance of romance within your relationship will insure a great relationship.
OUR DATE NIGHT, has many romantic ideas for the two of you to complete for each other.
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Sex Secrets
Almost every couple I know would love some sex secrets. They are always asking Gina give me a good tip that will blow his or her mind. Truth is there are many and I have many. You can find some good ones on my site. But the prime ones are in my members area. I give them out weekly hot sizzling ones. If you ever pass a couple on the street or see a couple in a public setting and they are grinning ear to ear they may have some of my secrets….
Some things you may have to understand:
Men and Women Do NOT have Different Sexual Needs and Desires
Many people think the opposite. The attitudes may be different. Our orgasms are the same. We all long to be touched, felt caressed needed and sexually fulfilled. Both partners men and woman fear intimacy. Woman may just communicate their feelings better. Each sex may just experience sex differently .
Hidden Sex Secrets
Many unfortunate couples try and hide sexual information about themselves to their partner. Many are too afraid or embarrassed to discuss what they need and where.
For woman, they may hide and pretend that their partner is satisfying her when he is in fact not. Most likely out of embarrassment and they don’t want their partner to feel like he is doing it wrong.
For men, they may have certain fantasies that they would love their partner to perform. However they are afraid of rejection. It is very unfortunate when two people cannot communicate what they would love to try. It is a shame because if these couples did express themselved they might find their partner open to such ideas. Both partners may find they actually enjoy the activities and it will create a bigger bond of intimacy between them. If there isn’t adequate communication, all the sex secrets in the world will not bring you results.
The solution to these problems may be solved easily with communication and a little help from the Our Date Night “Love Lessons”. It also involves the willingness to remain open and adventurous.
Sharing your sexual needs, desires, turn ons, fantasies etc., is one of the most intimate acts you can engage in. The great thing about intimacy and great sex is that they feed one another. Intimacy leads to more satisfying sex, while sex that is deeply pleasurable encourages more intimacy.
The secret to great sex is not just one move, technique, position or tip, it’s a combination of many things. It is the result of a good relationship, chemistry, and skill mixed together.
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